When Ant and I were leaving the the Pediatrician’s office we ended up walking out with a VERY pregnant lady.  She was very nice as we walked out and we ended up walking to our cars together.

While we were walking to our cars she asked, “How old is he? He looks to be about the same age as my son”
Me,” 22 months.”
Pregnant Lady, “Yup, they are the same age.”
Me (in my head), “That is Fing amazing.  AF just got her and now this.”  I smiled.
Pregnant Lady, “Your mommy was smart she didn’t get pregnant again right away.”

Luckily by that point I was almost to my car and I was already overwhelmed with everything going on with Ant.  I wanted to scream, “Thanks,but if I had it my way I would be pregnant right now too!”  On the other hand she maybe right that it is good that I didn’t get pregnant as soon as we started TTC again but that doesn’t make infertility any easier.  Part of me knows that waiting is ok but it doesn’t stop my longing for another child. I need a mute button for people who say stupid comments.